要走的总是会走

it always hurts me when my girlfriend goes out with guys or butches(those..)

maybe im just a fucking SNAG.

maybe im just made of jelly on the inside.

or maybe im simply NORMAL.


I guess there's nothing too abnormal about being concerned that our partners might leave us.

it'll also hurt (maybe even more) that they might be fooling around outside while you are still sacrificing because you love him/her and still working hard to keep the relationship alive

but I'll from now on, always made it a point to not stop my partner from doing the things she wants.


she wanna meet up with some new found hooligan guy friends, GO

she wanna go to her ex's private apartment, GO.

she wanna whatever, GO.

just GO.


do I still love her, YES! Of course!

but whats the point of caging a bird who so wishes so much to fly away? How would you feel if only after ten years of relationship that you finally find out that you've only been an uptight loser who is en-caging your partner?

yup, you're most absolutely correct that chances are, if you let her go free, she wouldn't come back.

but hey man, take this from me, if she wouldn't come back, it ain't fair that you are giving up so much for her now anyway.

要走的总是会走
if its gonna go away anyway, better that it fucking leave u now then end up torturing you a hundredfold in the future isnt it.

you're gonna be a damn fool if you don’t believe this, but its your choice ultimately, u know

it's just so fucking simple and obvious and im saying it because I don’t want anyone to fucking get fucked up again because of people who are fucking not worthy of love.



take good care of yourselves friends.

adios.